“Even if they are drop-dead gorgeous, go deeper and try to start a conversation based on things that you are both interested in,” Cox says. To craft the perfect DM, Cox suggests being casual, confident, and not commenting on someone’s appearance - however tempting it may be. “It’s just to give them enough of you to make them want to meet up IRL.” “Like dating apps, it’s not meant to be used to find out everything about them,” Cox tells Bustle.
Plenty of us tend to get anxious about our approach when we first send our crush a DM - should we go the funny, flirty or friendly route? While it’s not nearly as big of a deal as we sometimes make it out to be, it’s also not a bad idea to get creative and strategic when shooting your digital shot.Īccording to relationship coach Claudia Cox, it may help take some pressure off if you remind yourself a DM is simply a way to show initial interest. Even after a thorough cyber-stalk through your crush’s Instagram grid, it can still be difficult to figure out the best way to slide into their DMs.
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